How to tell someone you love them

From Jo in Chile: Hey Erin, how are u?  Well I’m from Chile so my English is not very good, but I’m trying to do my best for you to understand my letter. I need some advice to declare my love to a woman, I have been in love with her for 2 years and…

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Coming out in a Small Town- Do I need to be Certain?

From B I have had zero relationships, but I find myself way more attracted to women. I feel like I can’t really know my sexuality until I’ve had a relationship. I’m having a really hard time with this. There is no one I can really talk to about this because I live in a very…

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Reading Material for Newly aware Lesbians

I’d like to share this letter I got from a reader. For all the ladies out there who are only just becoming aware that they are lesbian: I’d like to suggest some reading materials for women who are just becoming aware that they might be lesbians and who may not quite know what to do…

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Overcoming Abuse and Finding Love

From P I’m glad you have this available. I’m 40 and soon to be 41 and live in Texas. I have a problem.  I was abuse from when I was in 4th grade up to my senior year.  The abuse was because I am hard of hearing.  When I didn’t hear something that I should…

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Gender and Growing Up

Letter from: Anonymous Hey, So I have a problem with a relationship that I have been in for about 8 months. I have never really dated before, mostly I just spend a lot of time with friends, some of them, in the past I have felt slightly attracted to, others I haven’t, but the feelings…

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Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Welcome to the second Ask Annabelle Posting I would like to thank all the wonderful people who helped me bring Ask Annabelle to fruition. Below you will find our second letter. Letter from: Anonymous I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years. But last summer I started working at a restaurant. I worked with this…

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Breakup Advise

Welcome to the first Ask Annabelle Posting I would like to thank all the wonderful people who helped me bring Ask Annabelle to fruition. Below you will find our first letter. Letter from: Anonymous Hey Erin. I was just hoping that you could give me some advice on break ups. I’m still hung up on…

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